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What's the difference between a 'failing life' and a 'successful life'?
I just finished off today these thoughts that had come to me earlier this week.
Six points that I see within myself and the changes that are being made, and still need to be made.
2. Puts time, effort, sweat and tears....Sacrificing the short term pleasures for the long term pleasures and reward.
Failing person puts in the effort of talking about it. Talks the 'end result' of the dream, but takes no action to bring it to pass. No strenuous effort made. If it's easy and fun-sure. Hard and dirty-no.
3. Takes irritations in stride while the other one blows up over irritations.
4. Takes failure as a problem that needs to be worked and figured out, uses it as a way to make positive changes.
The other takes it as a huge set back, becomes unfocused on the dream and focused on the failure. Not looking to solve the problem but to put blame. Not taking the initiative to make positive changes, instead sabotages their success with 'victim mentality'.
5. Comparison . Successful people will compare themselves with others only to acknowledge a 'great job well done' by the other, and uses this as an incentive to work harder towards their own goal.
The other compares themselves to others, is envious of the other, and does not acknowledge the persons hard work to accomplish how far they have come.Instead of working harder towards their goal, they refuse to even compete..'why bother putting myself out there, so and so is so much better than me.'
6. Time Management.
Simplify. Organizes. Declutters. Stays on task. Flexible when changes happen. Energetic. Puts forth an effort....in their home, work space, relationships, and mind!~
The common denominator I noticed in all these points was EXCUSES...the failing person has an excuse for everything.....
GUESS WHAT...that's why they fail!~